TERESA: 'I think men are supposed to be boys always'
Thu Oct 07 2004 22:22:44 ET
Kerry and Teresa Heinz Kerry appeared on "Dr. Phil"
yesterday. Some highlights, from HOTLINE:
THK: "I think men are supposed to be boys always. They just
go through different stages and if wives understand that they
can love them."
THK, asked if she ever wanted daughters: "Yes. ... I had
some miscarriages. I have several pinkies in heaven. I call them pinkies."
Kerry, on bringing the kids together after he and THK
married: "I played hockey and my daughter played hockey. And so
when we got married and were spending Christmases together, we
started this tradition of having this broom hockey game on
Christmas afternoon. We all got shirts that had the tomatoes
versus the pickles on it, which sort blended her thing with our
thing. And now it's become an annual thing."
Kerry, on his divorce: "I think the absolute key is to make
the initial decision that no matter what happens you've got
these kids together and they are what it's all about. And it's
hard sometimes but you have got to put their lives ahead of your
lives. ... She did an incredible job as a mother. ... And she
made up for a lot of my deficits and I have to acknowledge
that."
More Kerry: "Anything negative we tried to keep away from
them. I was supportive of her mothering and she was supportive
of my fathering."
Kerry, on telling the girls about the divorce: "You have to
sit down and look them in the eye." More Kerry: "It was an
ongoing effort to try to make sure that they knew their lives
weren't going to change, that both of us would to be there for
them, and this wasn't anything to do with them. And really try
to protect them from it."
Kerry, asked if ever spanked the girls: "Only once did I
ever spank one. ... I don't remember what it was [about] but I
hated it and I said I will never do that again in my life."
Kerry: "I think children of people in public life do get a
burden. And they have their parents lives shoved at them in a
way that other people don't." More Kerry: "I bent over backwards
never to force what I was doing on to the kids."
THK, about possibly being first lady: "When my late husband
was alive a lot of people used to say he would run for
president. And when he first thought about running for Congress,
I asked him not to. So he didn't for about three or four years.
And I was very scared about it for a variety for reasons. I have
lived in Washington since he was elected in '71 and I have a
pretty good idea of what happens in that city and what power can
do to people. ... So I'm pretty philosophical about it."
More THK: "I cannot change who I am. Win or lose -- I
cannot change who am. ... I know there are people that don't
like me because I'm married to my husband. And that's just part
of the game. If you want to be loved by everyone, don't go into
politics."
THK: "I was a witch with my children, truly, about
television. I used to say you can watch a half hour of
television a day."
END
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